libxl: fix libxl__device_disk_from_xs_be to parse backend domid
libxl__device_disk_from_xs_be was ignoring the backend domid, setting
it to 0 by default. Fix this by parsing the backend disk path in order
to fetch the backend domid.
This fixes the issue reported when trying to block-detach disks that
have it's backend on a driver domain.